MAXIMIZING your SOCIAL CAPITAL

 Today it was on MAXIMIZING your SOCIAL CAPITAL

Everybody feels good when they are WANTED

Everybody feels good when they are NEEDED

Everybody feels good when they are being MISSED when they are not around.

Everybody wants to be TREATED well.

Everybody loves the feeling of being IMPORTANT.

One of the most exciting decisions you can make is to be on the lookout for opportunities to invest in people's emotions positively and the deepest conscious need of every mortal is to be DESIRED.

This morning I want to share with you SEVEN ways on how to make other people feel important.

1) ACCEPT people the way they are: One of the deepest cravings of human nature is to be accepted by other people without judgment, evaluation and criticism.

2) Show unreserved APPRECIATION to people: Doing this raises their self esteem and makes them very important.

3) Be AGREEABLE: When you nod, smile and agree with another person you make them feel intelligent, respected, valuable and important.

4) Show ADMIRATION to others: Abraham Lincoln once said "Everybody likes a compliment".

5) Pay ATTENTION to other people: Learn to listen to people attentively. Learn to listen without interrupting.

6) Never CRITICIZE or CONDEMN others directly or indirectly: Never do or say anything that  lowers a person's self esteem or makes him feel less important.

7) Be CONCERN and CONSIDERATE:

When you treat a person with courtesy and respect ,he or she feels more valuable and important.

When you CONCERN about things that are happening in a person's life, he warms up and likes you more.

When you are CONSIDERATE, people feel more comfortable around you.

Remember life is meant to be SHARED.

Don't be too JUDGEMENTAL. God didn't create us to become judges but LOVERS.

Once you are too busy judging people you will never have enough time to love them.

Live let's live should be your motto at all times.

A song writer wrote; I need you, you need me, I need you to SURVIVE.

APPRECIATE everybody around you.

HELP those who need your help.

FORGIVE those that hurt you deep.

it is MAN-LIKE to punish but GOD-LIKE to forgive.

Don't forget that great successes do not live for themselves but for OTHERS.

Even your smile can mean so much to somebody out there..so give it.

Don't be SELFISH with a smile because it is the most beautiful ATTIRE you can put on.

To stress further,

RIVERS don't drink their own water.

TREES don't eat their own fruit.

The SUN doesn't give heat to itself.

 and the MOON doesn't go on a honeymoon.

All are available to SERVE us daily because nothing lives for itself and life is meant to be shared.

In sum I will, yes! you may not have all the MONIES to share around the world but atleast SHARE compassion,

SHARE consideration

SHARE appreciation

SHARE admiration

SHARE attention

SHARE love 

Most importantly, share SMILES and ENCOURAGEMENT to lighten people's burden.

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